When Umar bin al Khattab radhiAllahanho tried to arrange a marriage of zani boy and a girl.
1. Imam Abu Obaid Qasim bin Salam said:
”حدثنا سفيان بن عيينة عن عبيد الله بن أبي يزيد عن أبيه : أن غلاما فجر بجارية، فسئلا؟ فاعترفا، فجلدهما عمر بن الخطاب ثم حرص أن يجمع بينهما فأبى الغلام“
Abu Zaid makki said a boy did zina with a girl. They were investigated and both of them agreed. Umar bin al Khattab punished them with lashes and then tried to arrange their marriage but the boy rejected.
[الناسخ والمنسوخ لابی عبید 1/ 102 وإسناده صحيح أبويزيد ثقه وتابعه سباع بن ثابت عند عبد الرزاق رقم 12793]2. Ibn Hazm rightly said
”أول من تهون الزانية في عينه فالذي يزني بها“
”The person from whose grace a zānī woman falls first is the one who did zinā with her.”
[رسائل ابن حزم 1/ 349]A man mostly reject the woman for marriage who did zina with him.