Ibn Abbas on Romance, Respect, and Responsibility in Islamic Marital Life Contents Introduction Overview of Ibn Abbas’ teachings on marital life Importance of romance, respect, and responsibility in Islam Leniency and Fulfillment of Obligations Qur’anic guidance: Surah Al-Baqarah 2:228 Meaning of “rights of women” and…
Sexual weakness and taking medicines. It was narrated that ‘Aishah said: The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) while I was sitting, and Abu Bakr was also there. She said, ‘O Allah s Apostle! I was the wife of Rifa`a and he…
“Wearing fine clothes is following desires and soul.” al Qurtubi said: فإن قال قائل : تجويد اللباس هوى النفس وقد أمرنا بمجاهدتها ، وتزين للخلق وقد أمرنا أن تكون أفعالنا لله لا للخلق . فالجواب ليس كل ما تهواه النفس يذم ، وليس كل ما…
The Prostitute’s Repentance. 1. When Abu Hazim (Tabiyee) saw a woman seducing men during Hajj, he urged her to fear Allah. She replied: “By Allah, I am one of those women who did not come performing Hajj seeking reward, but rather to slay the innocent…
Be a romantic, charming, flirtatious, and pleasant wife rather than a boring kind. Allah says about women of Jannah. 36. Indeed, We will have perfectly created their mates, 37. making them virgins, 38. Loving (عُرُباً) and of equal age. (Surah al Waqia 56:36-38) The meaning…
Aisha (رضي الله عنها) Shut Down Suspicion Over Virginity. It is said about Aisha radhiAllahanha: , عن عائشة رضي الله عنها: أنها زوجت مولاة لها رجلا فلم يجدها عذراء, فخرج الرجل لذلك حزينا شديد الحزن, حتى عرف ذلك في وجهه, فرفع ذلك إلى عائشة رضي…
The Prophet (ﷺ) praised the good traits of practicing Christians, namely that they do not abandon their wives. He peace be upon him said: إن الله يوصيكم بالنساء خيرا، إن الله يوصيكم بالنساء خيرا فإنهن أمهاتكم وبناتكم وخالاتكم، إن الرجل من أهل الكتاب يتزوج المرأة…
Whoever loves passionately, remains chaste, and dies (in that state), is a martyr. (Hadith attributed to Prophet peace be upon him) Many classical scholars rejected this hadith for example, Ibn Jawzi, Ibn Qayyim and others see Talkhīs al-Ḥabīr by Ibn Hajr 2/283, Silsila Ahadeeth al…
Ibn Jawzi said about the women of Rome and India: وأكثر العفايف موعبات، وإنّما صار الزنى وطلب الرجال في نساء الهند والروم أتمّ، لأن شهوتهن للرجال أشد، وليس لذلك علّة إلا وفارة القُلفة، ولمَّا تعمَّق أهل الهند في توفير حظ الباه منعوا من الختان. “Most…
A woman has more right to look at her future husband than a man does. Also, marry your sisters and daughters to handsome, pious men. 1. Muṣannaf, ‘Abd al-Razzāq Kitab an-Nikah 6/158, it is mentioned thatUmar ibn al-Khaṭṭāb (may Allah be pleased with him) said:…